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User Topic: Its over
LA44
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry Unagie. I hope the peaceful moment you shared last night continues. I just read that good endings make for good beginnings.

LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2288 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you.


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 12:03 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you're hurting. It will get better. One day at a time.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:12 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It hurts and at the same time I'm okay...

I'm sorry for the pain. With everything you have done to grow, with all the lessons you have learned, you are going to be OK.

You are going to be a heck of a formidable woman.

You go girl!!!!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Unagie)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15395 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:48 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry ((((Unagie))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2587 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
ccw82
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry to hear about your loss. It is always a sad thing when it's OVER OVER (like, FOR REAL over).


Me: 31
WH (1DumbHusband): 35
Married 5 years, together 7 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
TTs that came out as late as January 2014

"One is not tempted by that he does not want."


Posts: 136 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Dallas, TX
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Unagie))

I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7650 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Unagie)))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5092 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. I've been working and coping the past few days. Each step I take that severs us a little more feels painful and so final...it feels like little cuts to my heart each time. No one in my life or family knows yet save my BFF who called me when it happened and I reached out because of how much it was hurting. Had she not contacted me at that moment she probably wouldn't know either. I haven't told anyone because I need to decided where I want to go and do from here without outside influence and knowing my family and friends they will all have something to say about what I should be doing now.

Thank you all for your support. I am walking through this as best I can.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2741 | Registered: Oct 2012
EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((unagie)))


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you doing today, Unagie?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25361 | Registered: Aug 2011
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Unagie. I've been reading your posts and I know that you have been working really hard both with your self and your relationship. I hope you find the strength to do what is best for you and that you put yourself first.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
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