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User Topic: Just wondering...
crazyblindsided
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Shutup  Posted: 4:40 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did anyone else get the honor of wanting to be hugged by the WS as DDay hit? I just read this on a post in the Just Found Out forum and my WH tried to do the same thing when I first discovered his A with MOW.

What on fucking earth would posses a person to want to do such a thing after being discovered for their vile act? I mean a hug? Really?!?! I wanted to knock him the fuck out when he did that.


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hugged wh. Told him I felt sorry for him "you stupid stupid man "

Posts: 556 | Registered: Jun 2013
RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WS's have strange ways of trying to feel better about their poor choices sometimes.

My STBXWW wanted a hug after telling me of the betrayel she felt when OM left her for OOW. I pushed her off, got up, and said "What did you think was going to happen?" Then walked out the door and had a beer with a friend.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1030 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
Skan
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That may have been me, you read about can't remember. But yea, FWH tried to give me a hug when I broke down crying, and the clearest, Do Not Fuck With Me growl came from the depths of my soul, voice came out of me along with a straight-arm that any NFL player would have been proud of, and I backed him into the counter. It was a moment of ice-cold clarity in an otherwise emotion-ridden f-fest.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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