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User Topic: birthday present
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Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WS's birthday is in about two weeks, and I've been struggling about what to get him. Presents are hard since he sold the last present I gave him because OW wanted him to... Anyway, I finally came up with an idea today, but I'm worried that he will either love it or completely hate it. I can't post the idea on here because he reads my posts, and I want it to be a surprise. I don't know too many people on here yet, but I was wondering if I could PM someone to get your opinion on it. Thanks!

30 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

Posts: 1208 | Registered: Jul 2013
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not certain how helpful I was with the whole birthday/FB status dilemma, but I'm here if you need a sounding board.

"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could listen as well.

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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go ahead and PM me. Don't know if I can help but who knows. Maybe we can help each other. I too am wondering about anniversaries, birthdays, Christmas etc.

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1323 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
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