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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's lying.

Obviously you have some concern about his fidelity. Start to decide what YOU want out of life. If you have to let him go then let him go. Don't be like me and waste years that you can't get back/

[This message edited by Got2GO at 10:47 PM, August 19th (Monday)]

BS (me) 47
WS (him) 70
Together 7 1/2 years
married 6 years
no children together
Happily divorced 1/29/13!

Posts: 111 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: got2go
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Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you look at his phone bill for that day and time, for the phone he said he called you on, and see if he really did call?

WH - 35
2.5 year LTA

Posts: 160 | Registered: Jun 2013
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

About two years ago, I got a call at home on my land line. Caller ID said "111111111" (not really sure how many ones, but you get the idea). I answered, thinking it might be a work colleague in Europe; sometimes when she called me a series of ones showed on the Caller ID.

Nope! Turned out to be my BFF, calling from her cell, same area code and city (and same carrier) as mine. Just some weird random thing. Never thought to ask her whether the call registered on her outgoing calls list.

That said...I think he's lying. He's ditched or disabled the secret phone.

I'm sorry


Posts: 365 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Virginia
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No clue but a couple of months ago I called my DS phone and a girl answers. She said wrong number. I call him again a guy answers says wrong number and tells me his number. Then DS calls me and it comes up as a very odd number. Verizon was having an issue where we live. So I would say it may be possible but I doubt I would believe someone who had cheated. Good luck.

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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Would he be willing to take a poly?

Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.

Posts: 1612 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's Happened To Me Once, Different Number Showing, But The Circumstances Weren't After An Affair. The Carrier Waa Having Issues. My Good Friend Called From Her Cell To GivE Me Some info. The Thing With Affairs, All Trust Is Completely Lost For A Long TimE. He's Very Likely Lieing Though.

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2478 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have experienced calling a number and someone from a different number answers. I say "did I call xxx-xxxx" they say "no this is yyy-yyyy" and once when my husband was away he called on his cell and the tower rerouted it or something because it came up a diff number, and he doesn't do that kinda stuff. I saw on his phone he called at such and such hour.

Don't know what your situation really was about but he might not be lying?

me WW/BW-31
him BH/WH- 31

2002/3 (him) EA

PA(me)-Nov 2007

Tog. 14 yrs, Marr. 13 and counting!


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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can see that he spent a lot of time researching cell calls coming from a number other than the phone being used. He also called his cell company while I was there trying to see if this was possible

did he do this research before or after the incident?

me WW/BW-31
him BH/WH- 31

2002/3 (him) EA

PA(me)-Nov 2007

Tog. 14 yrs, Marr. 13 and counting!


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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

when you look at a phone how can you tell if there are any apps?

D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 326 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

calls to and from get re-routed quite often. Happened to me, my wife called my cell while I was at work. My cell was in my office trailer with no one in the office, my wife said a women answered my phone. She said she phoned it right back and it went to my voice mail. I checked my call log and it only showed one missed call. Yes I am the WS and she does not really believe it, but I have proof of where I was at the time the calls came in.

WH Me 41
BW 39
M 18 yrs.
LTA 1.5 yrs.
D-day Sept 21,2012. Worst day of my life... can not imagine how it must have been for my loving wife. I am so sorry.

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