This is what she posted around midnight last night
"did you ever have one of those weekends you wish it didn't have to end ?Well I finally did ,wow it was amazing"
And stupid me clicked on who liked it and discovered yet another friend has added her, WTF. Not that this was a close friend but OMG, she too has been deleted from my real account. I just dont want people on my friend list who are not true friends. I will be seriously thinking about who is on my friend list and unless they really matter to me, they will be deleted.
I got FB to reconnect with old friends, classmates and family. So unless they are someone that I would want to spend time with, they are gone
I got my fake account to help with farmville and cityville games and since I don't play them anymore, I am getting rid of it, it has done nothing but hurt me since WH started cheating. For every post that makes me laugh that she posts, theres one that upsets me. Its just not worth it
I am done letting OW, WH, BIL, SIL, WH's cousin take up space in my head. Time to fill it with good people and happy thoughts, which none of the above mentioned provide me
Good riddence fake account, good riddence bullshit posts by the skank
I feel so empowered by this now, wonder what else I can do to rid myself of the drama?
Kept them for over a year because:
1. at the time they gave me comfort knowing he was coming back to me, because he said so
2. i would use them against them if I had to
Well, back in January, OW wanted me to send her some of them to prove what i was telling her, I did and boy do I wish I didnt, it didnt do a damn thing but piss off WH, and OW is always bringing it up, both the texts and the conversation we had, according to WH
I feel such a weight lifted by deleting my fake fb and now texts, next thing I think I will face is packing up the rest of his shit that is in my home!!!!
[This message edited by VeryHurtbroken at 2:18 AM, August 20th (Tuesday)]
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.
There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox
Sunshine....we have kept the A quiet with just a handful who know. The OW was not known to me or H until 3 months before the EA started. None of our friends knew her either. We are not Facebook friends but I can still check her public page. After the PA ended, her mutual friends shot up to 35. As of yesterday there are 62 mutual friends. She added one last week. This is a person that should have no real relationship with anyone we know. I feel the need to have a way to check up on her and she provides chuckles from time to time. The OW is such a narcissist that her page is very public. Everyone in the kingdom should be interested in her life. I cringe when I see who she as friended and I have no idea where she links with them.
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.