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User Topic: Off to yoga...together
LA44
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me and Rebuilder2 are off to yoga class.It's funny bc we really don't....bend that way but that's okay. We will do our best and for one hour stay in the moment (kind of impossible to think of other stuff anyway when doing reverse warrior or those blasted sun salutations!).

Have a good day, SI!
LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Off to yoga myself in a moment.

Headstand is the only time my world doesn't seem so upside down.


Eta. I was literally walking out the door before. Broevil and I go together a few times a month when our schedules allow. It is so good for the bodyand mind. WE each go separately a couple times a week and talk about it together. It is great to have a shared hobby

[This message edited by Chicho at 10:10 AM, August 19th (Monday)]


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so awesome. I take a yoga class occasionally and I've joked with LD about coming with me. Years ago he took a step class with me (when step was the thing) and it was hysterical, I couldn't get through the class I was laughing so hard. He is so uncoordinated. The thought of him in a yoga class....

Anyway, I think that's just great! Enjoy your time at the class and your zen moments with him .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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bionicgal
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We love doing yoga together -- it has been very, very healing for us. We try to schedule it right after MC sometimes so we can clear our heads.

(We learned the hard way that having "date night" right after MC was a big mistake, ha ha.)


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LA44
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yes...date night post mc can be tough bionicgal!. Your want to just drink your dinner!

AN, when we were doing tree and she said to focus on something stable, I thought to myself, "well don't look at H!" (he was a very wobbly tree!)

Anyway...it went well. The instructor was a newbie so H was getting a bit frustrated. She was walking about instead of doing the movements and when you are fairly new, like H is, getting lost is that much easier. But we did it and we both felt good afterwards.

Tonight, an older man (87) friend of mine has offered to make us and a few other friends, dinner. We are all bringing something and meeting at a local spot. He is my adopted grand-dad!

I feel very happy about this day.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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Rebuilder2
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today was one of our many meaningful wonderful days of this summer w my beautiful wife LA44 who initiated this post. Yoga with you, our community friends with family and our kids happily in day camps. As your favorite rocker wrote, "These are better days Babe"

[This message edited by Rebuilder2 at 9:08 PM, August 19th (Monday)]


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like the perfect day .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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