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User Topic: First word you think of pre and post a??
kickboxer
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Member # 39858
Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Immune
Post: Vulnerable


BW - 41 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: happy/safe/loving
Post: confusing/devastated

Post post(2+ years after D): Happy/empowered/hopeful/loving


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 11
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1461 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
TICKED OFF
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Member # 8291
Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sunflowergirl.....yes that is exactly right. That is it in a nutshell.

Posts: 2381 | Registered: Sep 2005
Lovedyoumore
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Member # 35593
Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre...peaceful

After....chaos


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1182 | Registered: May 2012 | From: South
Scubachick
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Member # 39906
Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: lonely
Post: broken

Posts: 472 | Registered: Jul 2013
Housefulloflove
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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre- "asleep"

Post- "awake"


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
2cooldaughters
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Member # 19408
Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: United
Post: Alone

Posts: 68 | Registered: May 2008
OldCow18
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Member # 39670
Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best Friends

Enemies


Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (48) 10 years, together 15
D-Day 6.8.13
D-Day #2 9.6.13 Broken NC/TT
D-Day #3 10.23.13 "Full Disclosure"
WH having PA with MW coworker 3.13-6.13

Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013
IGaveItMyAll
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Member # 38622
Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre A - Oblivious
Post A - Awakened


ME-BS 33
FWW-27
M 6 Yrs
DDAY- 8/20/12
R

Posts: 320 | Registered: Mar 2013
TICKED OFF
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Member # 8291
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Vulcanized".......yep you got that right. Naive as fuck is exactly how I would put it pre a.

It is very sad to know that so many of us gave unconditional trust to a person we thought was someone who gave a shit.


Posts: 2381 | Registered: Sep 2005
AStar
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Member # 39971
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Ignorant
Post: Shambles


Me BS (41)
Him WH (45). EA and possible PA (denied)
D Day 7/21/2013
M 8 years - filing for D

**The cruelest lies are often told in silence- Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 115 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: New Zealand
HurtButHopeful?
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Member # 25144
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Him: Teflon
Post: Me: Scarred


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Lonelygirl10
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Member # 39850
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: happy
Post: broken


29 Bgf
Dday: April 2013
Relationship ended: January 2014

Posts: 731 | Registered: Jul 2013
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