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User Topic: First word you think of pre and post a??
huRtZ413
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: trusting
Post: fear



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
Rhondy
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Member # 39327
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre - content
Post - unsettled

Posts: 5 | Registered: May 2013
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Frustrated

Post: Loving

No doubt about it - post has been so much better since the anger has subsided.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2482 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
whattheh
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Member # 40032
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: confused
Post: loved


BW- mid 50's (me)
fWH-late 50's
M 33 T 35
DD-Early 2013 PA 2010
In R but I have PTSD...

Posts: 575 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
sunshine226
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Member # 38851
Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre A - peaceful

Post A - devestation


Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2013
sunflowergirl30
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Member # 28979
Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre- safe

Post- lost


Together 21yrs married 18yrs
2 kids, now 19 & 16
Bw: now 38
Wh: now 37
Mow: now 50
1st D-day EA w/mow our realtor 4-?-2007, 2nd D-day PA w/ same mow 5-29-2010

Posts: 1079 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Pacific Northwest
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Happy
Post: Broken


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4025 | Registered: Dec 2011
Ellephantastic
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Member # 39833
Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre A: Naive

Post A: Angry/On guard


BS(me)
WBF = PA
Ow = 19(at the time)
WBF A = 08/10/2012-17/10/2012
D-Day = 24/01/2013

"It was easier for him to hurt me than it was for him to turn her down"


Posts: 80 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Scotland
Completelybroken
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Member # 40051
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Blissful innocent all consuming trusting love

Puke


Me-BS 31
Him-FWH 37
Dday-7-6-13
EA-1yr
PA sex 3-4times over three months during the EA

Posts: 93 | Registered: Jul 2013
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Naive
Post: Vulnerable


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 388 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
whatdoto
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Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: Naive/frustrated
Post: Devastated x10


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre....trying to put a word to it.but basically took my M for granted..thought it was a given that we would never part.

After ..Academy Awards for acting..leading lady and man


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5171 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre - manipulated
Post - freed

I thought I had a good marriage, but he was never the person I thought he was.

Post As (multiple affairs on his part), I felt free to drop the dead weight I'd been carrying and (finally) move on with my life.
I have to say its been a lot better since I got off the crazy train.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6581 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
frigidfire86
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre: proud
Post: limbo


Me: 28
Him: 29
Married 8 years
Daughter, 7 yrs old
D-Day: 05/08/2011

Posts: 628 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Germany
EZ24get
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Member # 29752
Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre~ Sacred

Post~ Desecrated



Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart,for a hard-on.

BW~ me 38
CH~ he 38
20 years on 12/12/12, 2 kiddos 14&17
D-day 1


Posts: 67 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: here
markyall
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Member # 37808
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

p-secure
a-dumbfounded
though sunflowergirl30 nailed it


Me:BH 42
Her:WS 36
two kids-still in school
Dday 052512

Posts: 9 | Registered: Dec 2012
TICKED OFF
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is pretty fucking sad if you ask me.

Posts: 2465 | Registered: Sep 2005
welcome14
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Member # 26741
Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

pre- blessed.
post- decimated.
now- bastard.


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1224 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
RockyMtn
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Member # 37043
Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pre - Fun
Post (initally) - shitstorm
Post (now) - deep


Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2012
Deanna
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Contempt

Renewal


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1463 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
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