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User Topic: Meaningful conversation (and some 'lol')
krazy8516
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This morning my WH and I brought my car to be detailed so we can trade it in for a new one(s). Hate spending $ on a car we're getting rid of, but I want it to be presentable to a dealer.

Anyway, we decided to grab some breakfast while we were waiting. I suggested IHOP, and he said "You're so smart. That's why I keep you around." Jokingly, I answered, "Now if we just just figure out why I keep you around!" He got serious, and said "I don't know. I think if things had been the other way around you would have been gone already."

Honestly, if you had asked me a couple of months ago, I would have said the same thing. But I'm finding that nothing is as black and white as it seems, and you can never be sure what you'd really do in a situation until you're facing it front-and-center.

I could tell, for the first time since d-day, that he's really starting to get it. Will that translate into R for us? I sure hope so, but I don't think we're quite there yet.

While at breakfast, we began discussing his desire to go back to school (he never went to college after high school), and what he might want to focus on. I was surprised to learn that he wants to go into bio-chemistry (!). Then I triggered for a second - I remembered reading on OW's FB that she works in a university lab. So I asked him, "Is that what she does?" He laughed and said "Not even close. She cleans up rat poop in the lab."

HAHAHA!!!!! This just about made my morning. I told him I suddenly hate her just a little bit less. I couldn't think of anybody more deserving to clean up rodent shit.


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But I'm finding that nothing is as black and white as it seems, and you can never be sure what you'd really do in a situation until you're facing it front-and-center.

This is dead-center, bulls eye, right on target. Amen.

@ the rat poop!

Sounds like you and your husband are having a good day. Right on.


Posts: 6246 | Registered: Dec 2010
RippedSoul
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You made me happy! Thanks. :)


BW: 49; SLAWH: 46; M: 23 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute #1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (AP, escorts #1 & #2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 20; DD: 18; DS: 16; DS: 14
PS: I've NEVER NOT edited my posts

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I couldn't think of anybody more deserving to clean up rodent shit.

LOVE THIS!!!


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 840 | Registered: Jan 2013
StrongerOne
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a good morning

Rat poop! Snork!


DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

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