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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had IC today, difficulty dealing with phone calls/skype from WH (who is in Brasil for 2 more weeks)..... Sometime I just don't know how much longer I can last.

Big fucking trigger last few calls: he says 'I miss you'.

Should seem normal, right? EXCEPT: He has NEVER EVER said that to me in *30 years*.

So WTF?? I just don't know if there's any point any more.


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2509 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
StepAside
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((DeadMumWalking))

Oh honey, I hear your pain. Is there someone close by that you can be with Right Now?


Me 47yrs, douche midlife crises poster boy- 49yrs
DitchPig -45yrs Shrek in drag.
Last Dday April 12/10-Divorcing
We live in a world where the fear of illusion is real

Posts: 1502 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: The Cheese Stands Alone
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((mum))))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9623 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
nomistakeaboutit
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hang tough. Seek immediate help from your IC and doctor.

Your children need you, always.


Me: BH 56.........Her: WW 43
DD: 6..........DS: 4
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 804 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
heartache101
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So is he still working with OW??

You have to decide when enough is enough...

This is all on him not you. You are enough honey..It is him that is broken please do not let him break you too..

Call your counselor set up an emergency appointment.
If he is putting this type of stress and thoughts in your mind then by golly stay separated and 180 him and don't give a rats ass what he is doing. Focus on you and what makes you happy!!

For the comment I think sometimes they get older an they really do wake up and see the light..Sometimes
Maybe he truly does miss you???

Be happy and do things that make you laugh today..
Exercise drink plenty of fluids and laugh if possible it helps with depression.


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

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