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User Topic: Finally I can say this is R!
PrincessPeach06
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Default  Posted: 7:01 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The first couple of months were hell. Although H confessed the morning after and immediately went NC I truly feel he didn't get it until recently. Yesterday we were home alone for the first day since Dday (all kids in school and him off work for the day) and we had the most amazing day.

We talked all day about the A, about his FOO issues and everything else. We had MC and it was great. We connected so well. He is constantly apologizing, doing whatever I need and realizes this is a lifetime thing and we have a long way to go.

I think the key for me is that he knows and is seeing the pain he caused. He says he knows he can't change the past but will do whatever it takes to ensure this never happens again.


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 35
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-5
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 297 | Registered: Jun 2013
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a perfect day. What a wonderful update.




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AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better. Reconciled from the A's but still working hard for a better tomorrow.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2428 | Registered: Aug 2012
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, yes I agree you (and a lot of us) have a long way to go, but it's great to hear you felt a "connection". Personally I think that's a big deal in itself.
You are both moving in the right direction, together!
Thanks for sharing.


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 459 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
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