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User Topic: How do I do this?
huRtZ413
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no job.
I live in a diff state than my hometown is and my dental certificate is .
My family , I have none.
My friends I don't have any.
I have two girls
No car
No money
No credit

So how can I get back home
How can I work and make sure the kids are taken care of where am I going to live while trying to find work?



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I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Others will be along shortly with more suggestions, but here are the first few that spring to mind -

Often times, churches will help people who are struggling and have no support system. If you belong to a church, talk to them. Many congregations will help non-members, too.

Seek out support and resources from crisis centers, shelters, etc. Do not let pride or embarrassment stop you from reaching out for help.

You can do this, honey.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24462 | Registered: Aug 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What nik said. My teacher's license had expired so I had to get it renewed in my current state. Is there a similar process for you dental certificate?

I have no family in the area either and found cheap daycare through my son's school, babysitters through the same, and I started reaching out to a couple of neighbors for help.

I initially had to take a job I was waaaaaay overqualified for (teacher's aid) but it got my foot in the door and I ended up with a teaching position in the middle of the school year.

You can do this, hurtz. Tackle one thing at a time.
((((hurtz))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4564 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Skan
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Try calling "411" where you are at. In some states/cities, the 411 system is for emergency social services. If you have it there, talk to the volunteer, tell them your situation, and they might be able to steer you towards some help. Be patient there are a lot of people using the system, but be persistant about following up every lead. Best of luck to you!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4588 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First ((((((hurtz413))))

How do you eat an elephant....one bite at a time.

Right now, which thing is pressing on you the most? Which issue can you do one tiny thing to get toward your new life?

And remember to do anything that brings you a moment of joy.

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 8:02 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)]


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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