I have been frequenting the forums that I use to visit before I discovered this one. I have been hanging out in the "support" forum for OW/M. Funny enough this forum is filled with former OW/M who are very deadset against affairs now, like almost fanatical about it. But I digress...
I had to share this gem, because I just about died when I read it: An OW came on and was telling the story of her and her MM's affair. Of course her BH is controlling, and doesn't approve of this other side of her (she said he doesn't approve of her being active, traveling, and taking risks... no joke ) But what got me was it came out that she married her husband DURING her affair. When people called her on it this was her response:
"FWIW, I did not mention fidelity in the vows that I wrote."
Now is it just me or is that an especially stupid thing to say?