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User Topic: Sold! WooHoo!!
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I moved within 3 months of separation. The house that we had lived in together and had so many fun times in, felt haunted and half empty. I think I might have actually lost my mind if I had stayed living there. It was just too much.

I rented it for the past two years while the market recovered and put it up for sale in June.

Today I am under contract with an Aug 30 closing date!!!

I've had a couple of good cries while I've been over there keeping it clean and ready for showings, but now I am just ready to be DONE!! I'm not even feeling melancholy. It just feels like "It's time".

That chapter of my life is over. Or it will be in another three weeks.

Onward and upward!


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great news!! Congratulations on turning the page and moving onto the next chapter in your life


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats !

WooHoo ! This is huge !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats NT


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52682 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13802 | Registered: Jul 2011
burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! So glad for you!


I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams

Posts: 4712 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Quelque part
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been there, done that, it feels great when it's DONE.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17560 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that's terrific, yay,

must be my turn soon.....


Me = FBS
Him = gone


things that happen in my life do not define who I am. I get to choose to be the best I can be, for me. cause I'm worth it.


Posts: 286 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: my happy place (most of the time)
cayc
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome, so glad to hear this!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3124 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news - congrats!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5297 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5284 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!! What a relief that is!

I was in the same position... Moved to a beautiful new house and listed our martital home in June. We went under contract about 10 days ago (yeah!) but today the buyers backed out. :(

So bummed.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all for the support. As I said, I am feeling far more release than sadness. It's a gate through which I know I must pass and there will be more healing on the other side.

GAH, PR!! That stinks!! I hope you find a new and SOLID buyer very soon!

House-selling/healing mojo to all of us........


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, August 12th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, I have no idea what will happen since the D/mediation was all based on this house being sold already. I can't imagine we'd have to do it all over again... Right??

CS was recalc'd- spousal was determined- everything based on the damn house. Ugh.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:55 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wooooohooooooo!

Huge congrats on another massive step in your NB.

Lets drink tee many martoonis to celurburate...hic!

((((((((((NT))))))))))


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-Tom Petty

Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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