Topic: You're not gonna believe this, but...
Member # 23890
| Posted: 1:08 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013|
Great news Coraline - very happy for you - the roughest part is done!
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Posts: 4113 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Member # 19258
| Posted: 2:15 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013|
YAY! I am so happy to read this today.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8452 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 33698
| Posted: 10:16 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013|
Way to go! Enjoy that lighthearted feeling (especially in Hawaii-- go somewhere amazing)!
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3607 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 34533
| Posted: 10:24 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013|
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
Posts: 763 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Member # 38010
| Posted: 10:26 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013|
WONDERFUL!!! Wish I had more than two thumbs to put up!!
How many ways can you say douche-dick?!
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Posts: 505 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 36144
| Posted: 2:06 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013|
Yayyyyyyy! Good for you Coraline. I've thought about you often, and am very happy to hear this.
Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13
Posts: 848 | Registered: Jul 2012
Member # 19595
| Posted: 2:25 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013|
Yay for YOU !!!!
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20377 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Member # 36134
| Posted: 3:06 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013|
Enjoy Hawaii and have some fun!
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5162 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 32962
| Posted: 10:53 PM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013|
So happy for you Coraline!
I will say though, don't let your guard down with him ever. Things will cycle around and back again all the time. I found the hard way that when I let my guard down and was a little too open with poopsmear that when things would cycle back around to hostile because of something that happened, Stuff that was said or done during the more amicable times would be turned into a knife blade and used against me. Smile pleasantly but keep your guard up and hold a big stick behind your back at all times.
Enjoy being able to exhale.
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
Posts: 871 | Registered: Aug 2011
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