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User Topic: Mediation today
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have not been able to post here because the dooosh and his family are reading all of my threads, but in mediation today and wanted to let you all know... Send your good thoughts my way!

Hope to be able to update all the awful things he has done this summer real soon.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3513 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping the best for you, Rose!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1665 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Pippy
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo..mojo..mojo.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9587 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
peridot
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Member # 18334
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4678 | Registered: Feb 2008
missmydogs
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Member # 36559
Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!!


Me 36
DS 16
DD 4

Divorced!

I've made a huge mistake - GOB


Posts: 71 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: missmydogs
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck PR!
Miss your posts!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4534 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck, mojo, prayers and whatever else I can send!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2108 | Registered: Oct 2012
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hawaiian Mojo coming your way!!! With a side of Mai Tai!


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 988 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs)))

I can't wait to get you back!!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5573 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've been on my mind lately, PR. Constant mojo headed your way.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24372 | Registered: Aug 2011
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks you guys!

Today went great for me. I will post a full review soon and fill ya'll in on his antics. I appreciate the thoughts and luck!!!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3513 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Coraline
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Default  Posted: 2:46 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad to hear it went well. I've been thinking about you, too.


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

divorced the Dooosh
Your revised tagline makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24372 | Registered: Aug 2011
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nik.

It's final today.
15 years ago today I said I do.
Today, I say fuck you Doosh!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3513 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hurray!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1665 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

15 years ago today I said I do.
Today, I say fuck you Doosh!

I do
You Doosh

I like the balance in this.

Congrats on getting it done and moving on!!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5573 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PR

yay! was thinking about you yesterday.

can't wait to read the redux!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8404 | Registered: Apr 2008
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll get to it hexed.. but not today.

Today I want to forget the assault that he tried to blame me for (unsuccessfully), forget the heart ache of my children that he doesn't see (on any kind of regular basis), forget that he constantly creates stories in his mind that are false and outrageous (and easy to rebuke with the paper trail I have meticulously kept), forget that he makes promises to my kids that he cannot/will not/does not keep (and that they cannot/will not/do not forget), forget that I cannot even go away on vacation to another state without him "showing up" there too (gee, what a coincidence!), forget that the past 20+ years of my life are all re-written by his skewed view of our marriage... and just be happy and free.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3513 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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