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User Topic: What does this omen mean?
TryingEveryday
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay. So a question:

Today, I had to run to the courthouse and pick up a certified copy of our marriage license for some legal proceedings for our company. Nothing ominous or bad, just needed a copy for an application.

As I stepped out of the building, the wind blew the paper right out of my hand and down the street (I did run and catch it - afterall - they just charged me seven bucks for that piece of paper)!

Was this an omen?????

It either means:
1. My marriage really has been "blown" to shit.

2. The winds of change are blowin' and it's a whole new world.

3. God has a sense of humor.

I don't know - what do you think?


Me - BS - 46
Her - WW - 38 (2 ONS)
Five kids:
DD20, DD18, DD17, DS16, DS16
D Day - Dec 24, 2012 -
R - 20 months and going extremely well.

Posts: 37 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Montana
unfound
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

omen? mayyybe.

Now if the paper would have flown away and got run over by a car in a parade with an advertisement for a divorce attorney on the side, then crapped on by a horse, then swept up by the clowns at the end and thrown in the trash... I'd say an omen for sure .

If I had to go with one, I'd say some powers that be has a sense of humor


ka-mai
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ArableSands
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From my point of view, the wind blew the license out of your hand because the windforce was stronger than your grip on the paper.

I'm not trying to be an ass, but I don't place much store in things that aren't empirically supported.


Posts: 224 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Vancouver, Canada
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about adding one more:

4. You still have a sense of humor.

They can break our hearts but we still have our sense of humor.


Me (BS)-45, WW-43
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1450 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
TryingEveryday
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys.

Unfound - I was going to go that far in my description, but decided that "brevity is the sole of wit," as was said better by someone else.

Arable - Neither do I. Just trying to find a little humor in this somewhere.

Sal - thanks. That really is it. I always had a pretty good sense of humor before December. Trying to find it again.

Anyone else? Come on . . . put yourself in my place. What would it mean?


Me - BS - 46
Her - WW - 38 (2 ONS)
Five kids:
DD20, DD18, DD17, DS16, DS16
D Day - Dec 24, 2012 -
R - 20 months and going extremely well.

Posts: 37 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Montana
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe since you chased it and caught it, it means you really want to reconcile?

As part of his war reparations, my spouse upgraded the center stone in my wedding ring for our 16th anniversary. It was about 2 months post dday. The day he picked it up from the jeweler, he texted with his AP. About a week later I was sitting on the couch, looked down, and the stone was GONE. I had a moment of panic, but found it in the blanket I was cuddling in. I wondered at the time if it was a sign. Two weeks later I found out I was in false R.

Ugh. I think that was a blurt. lol


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is God saying to you, "a good marriage is hard to hang onto."


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.


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