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BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are getting married in 5 days, and WF's bachelor party is on Wednesday.

I have been stressed about it, and worried. We talked, he knows my boundaries and has promised that he won't even so much as speak to another woman, there will certainly be no stripers or anything like that, and he will behave as though I was there too. And he will come home that night. He has been behaving himself, and we have been doing well, for the most part, for a year. A few porn slip-ups in there though.

I think they are going to an irish bar, and my brother and dad are going, which makes me feel better. If he does anything inappropriate, I have no doubt that I will find out about it.

I'm having a friend over to keep me company that night so that I don't worry and bother him.

Pray for me! Send good thoughts!!


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((BeyondBreaking))

It really does sound like you have some good safeguards in place. I hope that sets your mind at ease.

Sending you strength.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Beyond)))

I'm glad your dad and brother will be there. Don't forget to post here if you start to feel anxious. We are here for you.


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BeyondBreaking
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm feeling very very anxious and frustrated about it. I am doing my best to convince myself that it is fine, nothing will happen. I had a bachelorette party and there were no men involved what-so-ever.

I am very nervous about him having this so close to the wedding because I feel scared that if something DID happen that was inappropriate, I might not find out about it until after we are married.

My rules were: no other women (strippers, no girls buying him drinks, no flirting, etc...) and for him to come home after (even if it's late and I'm in bed). I doubt I will get much sleep tonight anyway.


I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."


Posts: 840 | Registered: Jan 2013
brokensmile322
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Beyond Breaking))

Wishing you strength and peace!


Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."


Posts: 1544 | Registered: Jun 2012
Dawnie
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that your dad and brother being there is your great.. if he was intending on misbehaving then they would not have been invited... them being there would ease my mind immensely...

((Beyond))


DIVORCED! Remarried to a real man!
BW (me) - 41 (now 46)
WH (him) - 43 (now 48)
OW - 23 yr old foreign gold digging whore looking for her American meal ticket
1 14 yr old son (now 19)
married 20 years/together 25 years
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