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User Topic: Dear Wasband,
better4me
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh MY! Do you think he was jealous???


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3219 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
SBB
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh.No.He.Didn't.l!!

Stop!!!

My ribs!!!!

I'm guessing this is a kind of proposal of sorts? You'd have to marry him then cheat on him in order to extend the same courtesy, no?

I'm sorry but you will have to marry him - it's just good manners, NIK. You can't be messing with etiquette especially when he is being such a shining example.

Get the net. Seriously.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5619 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

who I spent time with while in CA

Sooooo it's going to be SUPER awkward when I send him pictures of us and tell him to stay away from my new girlfriend, then?

Just don't show him the sunset-dappled pier photos - he'd be super jealous then!

Seriously, though, none of his business, and frankly, I think you should come out to CA more often, NIK!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3913 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a piece of work. You really did show restraint by just walking away.

My STBX lectured me about not dating while we were still married right after he told me ILYBINILWY and asked for a divorce. I found out about OW about a month later.


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 934 | Registered: Mar 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you think he was jealous???
I can't imagine so, b4me. I think he's been searching for so long for any potential moral high ground upon which he can stand in judgment of me, and he was hoping he'd found it.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25850 | Registered: Aug 2011
m334455
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Default  Posted: 11:56 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do you do it? Really? I would have had tears running down my face from laughing so hard... and then if he'd started to get mad I'd probably have to put my hand up and say "no, seriously, stop now or I'm going to pee."

Freaking wedding band on the hand?


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

Posts: 4034 | Registered: Dec 2009
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..and the insanity that is Wasband continues to build - he is truly becoming an SI legend - kind of like Big Foot - I mean who would believe it if they hadn't witnessed it?

Your strength continues to amaze me nik.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4631 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What??? No!!!

Big
Foot

*gasp*

[This message edited by FaithFool at 12:31 AM, August 5th (Monday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17592 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

who I spent time with while in CA

Is it just CA or does it apply to all 50 states? just the lower 48? including Cuba? Do you need to send photos of each and every person you pass on the street? Really what are the guidelines of reporting to the ex? You should probably get clarification

[This message edited by IrishLass518 at 8:17 AM, August 5th (Monday)]


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1783 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*GASP* What if Wasband doesn't APPROVE of who you see?


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1783 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just tell him you had the most amazing late night massage followed by a hearty breakfast, walked through hills and groves of redwoods while having conversations on the deeper meaning of life and sharing the joy of a king-sized Snickers bar, enjoyed candle lit dinner at a Bayside restaurant and finished off the day with a moonlit walk for two across the Golden Gate bridge. And that was only Monday.

eta:A better description of the Snikers experience.

[This message edited by Jpapageorge at 5:26 PM, August 5th (Monday)]


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1756 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, for heaven's sake.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8116 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He doesn't have to know that our friend Sven was actually a sweet sixty-something Asian woman.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17915 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG. I love you guys.


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jpapa & Jrazz - I hereby sign you two up as my official ghost writers. Checks are in the mail.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sharing the joy of a king-sized Snickers bar

Better be careful, he might think this is a euphemism for something else...

What a nutjob!

[This message edited by kernel at 9:03 PM, August 6th (Tuesday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5329 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Better be careful, he might think this is a euphemism for something else...
I think that was the point.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is he seriously for real? AYFKM?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3429 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, August 6th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is, unfortunately, seriously for real. I couldn't make this stuff up if I wanted to.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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