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User Topic: Dear Wasband,
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to thank you for giving me yet another hilarious contribution for my potential future memoirs.

I was beside myself with laughter when, during the walk back to our respective cars today, you cornered me (while wearing the wedding (?) ring you've yet to mention) and started grilling me about who I spent time with while in CA. The capper on the utterly surreal conversation had to be when you switched to "patronizing and ironic fucktard" mode and said, "I just hope that you will extend me the same courtesy I have given you by telling me if you start a relationship."

(sidebar - direct quote, people. OH YES, HE DID!!! And with a straight face, even.
I demurred that I would, of course, give him a heads up before INTRODUCING anyone TO THE KIDS, but that I was confident he wasn't asking me to keep him apprised of my (currently non-existent - not that he knows that) dating life.
Ahem. End sidebar)

I appreciate you not ruining my perfect exit by speaking again. It allowed me to hold my laughter until I was safely in the car and out of the driveway.

It's been a while since you gave me such a good laugh, Wasband. Thanks for upping your game again. I needed that.

Sincerely,
NIK

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 8:35 PM, August 4th (Sunday)]


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I just hope that you will extend me the same courtesy I have given you by telling me if you start a relationship."
It makes you wonder how they get through life doesn't it ?
I would have said," When you notify me of your life changes that will affect MY kids, I'll be happy to let you know any changes in my life.
What a Bozo.
But we know that.

[This message edited by gma56 at 8:40 PM, August 4th (Sunday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20322 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

O. M. G. I am speechless. AND snorting giggling hysterical with imagining it.

NIK, I would not have been surprised if lightning had struck him down where he stood.

unbelievable.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5582 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wow, he's just... aw hell, it's just easier to keep laughing..


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12122 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank God you do not have to go home with this man tonight, nor ever again!!!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1956 | Registered: Jan 2012
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*snort*


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


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phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know how you held it in -- you have some restraint.

I'm sure you will extend the same (nonexistent) courtesy that he did. FTG.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've come to think of him as a bit of an SI treasure. I mean - COME ON!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You know what you do with treasure right?

BURY it!!!


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm amazed he's able to walk and breath at the same time.

It's like their brains are permanently disconnected from the world. There is reality and then the weird bits of reality that their brain absorbs and warps to create whatever picture of themselves they want to create. Sad!

I'm glad you got a good laugh out of it!


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get the shovels ready...oh, and lime, lots of lime...and a tarp.....


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

okay NIK, tell us the truth. Was he this stupid when you were married to him, or did you drop him on his head during the divorce?


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12122 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Take2
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ killing me here inconnu ^^^


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was he this stupid when you were married to him, or did you drop him on his head during the divorce?

I refuse to answer until the statue of limitations on divorce drop-kicks has passed.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sooooo it's going to be SUPER awkward when I send him pictures of us and tell him to stay away from my new girlfriend, then?

[This message edited by Jrazz at 9:57 PM, August 4th (Sunday)]


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16331 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
missmydogs
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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in awe of your skills Nik! Really? Just Really Wasband?


Me 36
DS 16
DD 4

Divorced!

I've made a huge mistake - GOB


Posts: 71 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: missmydogs
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sooooo it's going to be SUPER awkward when I send him pictures of us and tell him to stay away from my new girlfriend, then?


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Betrayeddaddio
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I just hope that you will extend me the same courtesy I have given you by telling me if you start a relationship."

First thought....."Yes wasband, I will extend you the EXACT same courtesy"

(stories like yours reaffirm my "not a people person" status)


BH-42 WW-40 DD-5 DD-9 DD-11
D-Day 09/27/2010 Wayward wife had a 10 month A with married DB co-worker Separated Oct. 2013

Posts: 702 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Daddio - I highly recommend heading to an SI g2g when you can. It will absolutely challenge any "all people suck" tendencies that may be lurking about.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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