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User Topic: Really?! No CS in a month and I find out he switched jobs!!
GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't get any CS or daycare help last month. The CS is done by wage garnishment and I had no idea what was going on. I had my case worker call his employer (have to wait to call till the first of the next month) only to learn he got a new job!! They have 30 days to get the CS stuff done. I have no idea when I'll get the CS started back up and what'll happen to the stuff he's in arrears with.

My biggest issue is the $1,000/mon in daycare that I spend! Had it not been for that I'd be okay. Oh yea, I wouldn't have bought a new car June 22nd had he told me what was going on. I would've waited a bit.

He's such an ass. I have no idea where his job is located, although I'm almost suspecting they're moving back to PA where her family is (XH is in MI and we're in MN). His new wife was done with law school and passed the bar exam last Oct and now suddenly she's studying for the bar again. Add in his new job = suspicious. Time will tell I guess.

This sucks! I really need that income.

(Yes I know I'm lucky to get CS as some don't.)

[This message edited by GrievingMommy at 8:42 PM, August 2nd (Friday)]


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, August 2nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My XwH puts the child support in my mailbox every payday. This week it wasn't there by noon and I was really freaking out. I ha

d so much to take care of. I would be in deep trouble if this happened to me.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2149 | Registered: Jan 2012
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so infuriating that they don't put their kids financial interests first.
Hope it gets straightened out quickly.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4656 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And you know what really pisses me off too? I have my summer vacation with the kids the next two weeks. Now we can't do what planned due to lack of funds!! He knew this about my vacation time. Had I known of his job change, I would've planned accordingly.


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((GM))))

I am so sorry. This is hard to swallow. You are right to be frustrated and angry.

The self centeredness never ceases to amaze me. Try not to see all the places you would have done something different if he'd been a decent human being and given you a heads up. Try to figure out what do now.

I am so sorry.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5842 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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