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User Topic: An email to respond to? Help requested.
justabrokendream
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your ex is one of the lamest examples of a H or dad that I have seen on this site - and you can see from my number I have been on here a long time.

The "goodness" of his heart? He has no heart.....


Posts: 306 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: CA
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is lame.
OW is a sociopath and is the one running the show.


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2254 | Registered: Jan 2012
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, August 4th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, yes, this is common from nearly Exh and nothing is done without an announcement similar to the one in your thread.

Two counselors and a friend I mentioned this to have suggested it may be a guilt thing on their part, or a push to get themselves accepted by the child after they have wronged them.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2306 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting,, Ashland.....


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2254 | Registered: Jan 2012
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really want to thank everyone who helped me give crickets to the POS I was once married to.

Taking a step back, I can see how not responding to dumb ass comments is the best.


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2254 | Registered: Jan 2012
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J

May I just say......

I FREAKING LOVE the half time marching band!!!! It's the best part of football, if you ask me. The synchronistiy, the horns, the juking and the steppin'. Hells yeah!!

Do you remember that BCS game where the Ohio State marching band dotted the "I" in Ohio during the halftime show?? I don't even remember who won the game. I just know their marching band stole the F-ing show.

Your son rocks!!

End t/j
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[This message edited by NoTriangles at 10:49 PM, August 7th (Wednesday)]


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, August 7th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So he's a cheap mutherfker, with giving out extra money yet he runs to a lawyer for a consult?

Wouldn't the lawyer bill be more than a HS ring?


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

Posts: 1608 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG random I never thought of that!!!

No triangles: I love 1/2 time shows,too! DS wants to go to college to be in a large band!
Thanks!


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Homewrecked did you marry my XH? I had 4 kids in MS band and 2 kids in HS band. One was drum major. Our HS Band competes at 4 -5 competitions a year. XH/NW went to a handful of games/shows in 4 years. And he'll tell you he LIKES football!

Sheesh.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It shows another side of selfish. These children (as you know) start band practice in JULY! They are out there giving it their all and where's Dad? Sitting around smoking cigs and drinkin beer with OW and her kids.

I have found out very recently OW is cheating on my XWH with another married Dad whose daughter goes to this hs.
I am assuming OW tells XWH when they (XWH and OW) will go to a game so they don't run into HER OM!!!!


I honestly can't understand why someone would want all this drama day in and day out. I do know it is really aging the OW !!! LOL She is looking very haggard lately!

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 6:57 AM, August 9th (Friday)]


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2254 | Registered: Jan 2012
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, August 8th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

double post

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 9:32 PM, August 8th (Thursday)]


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2254 | Registered: Jan 2012
nightowl1975
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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, August 10th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One time my XH actually thought I would believe he talked to his attorney on a Sunday.

Well, technically, if your ex's "attorney" is an imaginary friend like my ex's "attorney", he could probably talk to him on Sunday. My ex gets all sorts of, um... "advice" from his imaginary "attorney".


Me: 39
Ex: 47
D Day: 4/2010
Divorced: 7/2010

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homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now that I have calmed down, of course his atty told him no such of a thing...the OW feeds him this line of BS.


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2254 | Registered: Jan 2012
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, August 13th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

double post oops

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 10:02 AM, August 14th (Wednesday)]


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


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