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User Topic: Tell Me To Stop
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I deleted my fb bc fWH's "girls" were on there. But, I looked them up today to see pictures of them. Ugh. They're all ugly, haha, but it KILLS me to know he slept with them. I'm jealous they have innocent lives. They had no idea about who he really was. They didn't do anything wrong, they were just partying with some guy they met at a bar.... while I was at home taking care of our babies and working 12 hour days. I don't want to feel sorry for myself, because I'm a strong ass bitch. It just makes me sad. Not angry anymore. Just sad that I picked a broken man.


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((LR)))))

Tell you to stop what? Feeling? Nope. Can't do it. You know the drill..you have to feel it to heal it.

I think deleting fb was a good idea.

Or do you want to be told to stop feeling jealous of these OW?

Stop. They were whoring around at a bar and went home with the first asshole who looked their way. While you were...where? At home..with your babies?

Don't be jealous. They were out acting slutty and desperate...you were home loving your children.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7743 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks confused.

Yeah, I'm SOOOO not that girl in the bar seeking attention from the opposite sex. At. All.

And, yes, I know the drill. :)

YES, LOVING MY BABIES! :) Best place on Earth by far!!!


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Liberty--I'll tell you to stop if you tell me to do the same: after a month of ignoring her and blocking her on FB I did a search and there was an OKC hit and I checked her out there. I feel as though I have stooped to her level. ugh.

[This message edited by WeepingBuddhist at 6:29 AM, August 6th (Tuesday)]


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 633 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stop!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52737 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stop!!! NC it works wonders


Just sad that I picked a broken man.

Me too (((libertyrocks)))


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks! Maybe that will do the trick. It sucks that I've allowed Skankenstein to have this much power over how I feel. Since I blocked her on FB, the last month has been soooo much better. Now I'm really angry at her--before I just kind of pitied her and tried not to even think about her.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 633 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry to T/J.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 633 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
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