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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found this article and I really liked the answers to why Me/Women cheat and then blame.


http://www.guystuffcounseling.com/counseling-men-blog/bid/86041/why-do-men-cheat-blame-their-partner?source=Blog_Email_[Why%20Do%20Men%20Cheat%20%26%20B]


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, July 31st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know he addressed it at the bottom, but I really thought the use of gender pronouns ruined the article. Everything that was written applied in equal measure to cheating asshole women. Also, I think this line:
I've worked with cheating men (and cheating women too) who've been lying for so long, and in so many ways, that they've created such a web of lies that even they sometimes don't remember the truth.

is a huge load of bullshit, unless the cheater is suffering from Alzheimer's syndrome.

I thought the author was, for the most part, spot on in their analysis of cheaters while simultaneously writing a terrible article. I suppose that takes some talent.

[This message edited by h0peless at 10:14 PM, July 31st (Wednesday)]


Posts: 1736 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, August 1st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've worked with cheating men (and cheating women too) who've been lying for so long, and in so many ways, that they've created such a web of lies that even they sometimes don't remember the truth.
is a huge load of bullshit, unless the cheater is suffering from Alzheimer's syndrome.

Unless you're dealing with someone who has a personality disorder. My NPD XH believes the lies he tells. He has concocted so many lies his head must run DVR marathons to keep him current on his story. He actually believes the lies and claims they are "his perception".


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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