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User Topic: Small thing but...
FlySomeday
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, so you know when you are trying desperately to divorce an NPD and when they do little things just to piss you off???

Lets put the big things aside like...drag his wife and kids through not one but two rounds of court just cause and to the turn of $70,000. Yes, we'll put that aside right now.

I want to ask Douchebag to use regular time in communications! He is NPD COP so he enjoys using miliary 0' dark hundred whatever. It drives me crazy! It isn't because I can't do the math either..masters degree and all. It is the power play thing that drives me crazy. He lost with a land slide in Juvenile court and now we are again looking @ Civil court proceedings. I'm thinking about asking him in an email this one small request. Thinking that if he doesn't play, we'll then in court I will just add it to the list of how disagreeable he is.

Maybe I deserve some at this point. I can take it. Small things man can just make you tick!

-FLY


Digging Deep in the Mud

Posts: 232 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Virginia
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait. What?

You want to contact him & request he change his manner of stating time? You want him to use conventional time references rather than military, even though you have no problem understanding military time references?

Girl, what have you been smoking? Why would you bring that up to a Narc? Why open yourself up to that headache? That is such a trivial non-issue! Let it go.

(((HUGS)))

[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 6:19 PM, July 28th (Sunday)]


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9824 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with you, he's just doing it to push your buttons. Uninstall that sumbitch! Don't let him know it bugs you and he'll quit. But I'm here to tell you if you ask him to stop, he will be sitting there chortling to himself as he tells you that he'll stop at 0345 on the 31st of never.


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
FlySomeday
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha. THank you for the *smack* I needed that. *sigh* just one of the many.


Digging Deep in the Mud

Posts: 232 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Virginia
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

With the Narc I am trying to be rid of, he feels that his world should be known by everyone. So it wouldn't occur to him to change what he says for anyone else's benefit...us peons are expected to change for him.

I no longer ask or show interest in his lingo...he is techy and his hobby is to hear himself talk on and on and on and on...so I pretend I am at church and it's the sermon and I find songs in the phrases or play other mind games with myself until he's gone again.

Then, I google!

There was a time when I could listen to that voice all day long and now I just want it gone.

You know, and I hope I'm not repeating, I think nearly Exh and your Narc, Fly SD, also may just be so into their own universe they don't think about people outside of it. Of course it may also be to make you mad, which I used to think about nearly ExH, but I think nowadays that it would take effort on his part to think of me and it would take away from thinking of his own selfish a..


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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