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User Topic: eharmony "views" question
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you start the guided communication with someone, when they get your message and view your profile, will it show up in who viewed you? Or is that only before communication starts from either side?

I hate that I'm trying OLD.


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
forced2moveon
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, you can see who viewed your profile.

Posts: 935 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Southern California
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tabitha yes, it will show anytime they view you even if you are communicating with them.


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 235 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. I don't think he's been on. It says active within a month and he hasn't viewed or responded.

Either way, it's been a week and I'm thinking about pulling the plug.


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
tabitha95
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Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm hardly getting any matches and the couple I do get, the guy mispelled his job title.

It keeps saying to expand my geography, but I don't want long distance, so I'm keeping it at 30 miles.

There was one interesting person, the one I contacted, but he was originally out of my age bracket. He's 50, I'm 44. I put 40 to 48. He may be off eharmony or on vacation.

Either way, eharmony's 3 month trial has been a rip off.


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
BrokenSpirit50
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Member # 34485
Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had to expand my geographical area too. I live in a big metropolitan area and even someone in the area could be 60+ miles away. In fact the gentleman I am seeing currently lives close to 70 miles away. Good thing he likes to drive! Good luck with EH.


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 235 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
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