Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
Find a Local Couselor
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: Essdubyaohdee (44217)

New Beginnings Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Really?
click4it
♀ Member
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 4:04 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can't call your son to wish him a happy birthday ON his birthday?

Ok, so you had him with you for a week and dropped him off the day before his birthday. And yes, I did tell you that you are welcome to come to his birthday party on his birthday today because your family was going to be here to celebrate and I thought it would be the "decent" thing to do and invite you to come. No, I did not say "you, your wife and her kids are welcome to come", but did I really need to? I knew you wouldn't come, regardless, because we've never been on that kind of civility yet and probably never will be, but I thought for once in 10 years I'd try to "do the right thing" for the sake of our son.

But to NOT EVEN CALL TO WISH HIM A HAPPY BIRTHDAY TODAY???

REALLY?

WHY THE FUCK NOT?

By the way, he had a terrific time at his party with your dad, mom and sisters. So fuck you for being the ass that you always are, but your son did have a good time and didn't "seem" to mind that you didn't call him on his birthday. It probably bothered him more that I was shocked that you didn't even call him. But I guess that would make me wrong to flip out right?


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25508 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Bluebird26
♀ Member
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 4:30 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((hugs)) to you and your son.

My oldest ds (14) went through this year, 5 months ago now. His father threw a mantrum because he wanted to have friends over for his birthday as well as family. He still hasn't done anything for his birthday, even now. It stinks and my heart breaks for him.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Bluebird26
♀ Member
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 4:30 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

duplicate post.

[This message edited by Bluebird26 at 4:31 AM, July 28th (Sunday)]


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
cmego
♀ Member
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((click))) that sucks.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4005 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
wildbananas
♀ Member
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you. I can't remember the last time ex-asshat called the bananas on any holiday - birthday, Christmas, whatever.

Yeah, I don't get it, either.

(((clickie)))

Happy birthday to your boy. He's lucky to have you.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15359 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
better4me
♀ Member
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you and a happy Birthday to your DS. You are so good to have his dad's relatives come to the party!!

His dad can just go sit on a tack! (what my dear, sweet, non-swearing mother used to say!)


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3004 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
jo2love
♀ Moderator
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((click & ds)))

My heart hurts for your son. I'm glad he had a great birthday.


Posts: 33730 | Registered: Mar 2011
click4it
♀ Member
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks all. I just needed to vent last night. I called him today and asked WHY he didn't bother to call his son. His excuse was that he sent a message to him via all electronic ways...whatever. I said well I dont' think your son got those messages and really a phone call would have been nice. So, whatever, I've let it go, but it just always reminds me what an insensitive ass is and always will be. Thanks for listening to my vent last night!


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25508 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Topic Posts: 8

Return to Forum: New Beginnings Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.