Yes, it is hard to avoid triggers and the in your face reminders of infidelity.
I know that infidelity has been happening since biblical times, however, it still doesn't make it okay or hurt any less when it's landed at your doorstep.
I hate technology and the media for making it so easy (YES, I know my FWH chose to cheat... )
But it is so easy to hide behind text and emails. And the media acts like the latest infidelity is like reporting on the latest baseball scores.
Society has gotten so desensitized to it that it is "no big deal"
From Hollywood to Washington. It is the common place. If the President of the United States can get caught cheating and still leave office with one of the highest opinion polls....Lord have mercy.
The latest is this Anthony Weiner in NYC. I just wish his wife would have walked up to the microphone with the pretense of "supporting" him and turned around and smacked the shit out of him and address the press with "my attorney is in the process of drawing up divorce papers. NYC you deserve better and so do I".
It takes time but I trigger a lot less when these instances come up but it still makes me sick.
Thanks for letting me vent.