Is that the case?
[This message edited by Apple3point14 at 9:34 AM, July 26th (Friday)]
I'm a bit worried by your statement that you "oblige to tell the truth." Taken as is, it sounds like you're making some sort of reluctant gesture that you want some credit for doing, when really, telling out spouses the truth should be our desire. Maybe I'm just reading it wrong, but I thought I'd bring it up.
Not sure if you've seen it written anywhere yet, but it is often said that it isn't the A that kills the M, it's the lies. Not that you're lying, but not telling the truth or giving answers is what will put the finishing touches on the demise of your M.