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hurtincolorado
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It hurts so bad. Worse than surgery, worse than losing a dear friend to death, worse than anything because it does't seem to get better. The wound grows deeper even if you are trying to recover because you never realize the depth of the betrayal until time passes. Its been two years. When do things get better?

Posts: 38 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Colorado
stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

things improve at a much faster rate when you start focusing on yourself.
are you doing anything for YOU lately?


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2405 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with stilllovingher. Focusing on myself is the only thing that has helped me so far. I am 16 months out from DDay and I'm still in pain too, some days are better than others, but my worst days seem to be behind me now, I hope


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it's not just time that heals, it's what you do with the time that really matters, imo.

are you trying to reconcile with your WS?


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12144 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
Emotionalhell
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some days I have a really hard time focusing on myself. I used to enjoy so many hobbies.. I am doing good making through the day.. I try to stay busy with stuff, work .. Whatever HAS to be done...

Just when I think I'm doing better . When I think I'm stronger , I'm back on the emotional, painful roller coaster .


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