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User Topic: So.... saw/heard through the grapevine...
hurtbs
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Exclaimation  Posted: 6:19 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Came across a photo of him and some details through our shared social network (first time in almost a year).

In the photo he has gained a ton of weight - 20-30 pounds. He was already carrying an extra 20-30 lbs to begin with... He's also wearing a shirt we got on our vacation overseas (a cheap local t-shirt).

He didn't marry OW2 (the crank whore that tried to get me arrested). He's got a new "soul-mate" but he's also active on online dating... (he hit on a friend of mine on Match a couple of weeks ago).

So he's behaving the same way but got a new victim, I mean girlfriend.... and he's looking worse than ever.

That probably sounds petty of me, but I'm going to enjoy it. I know tha I'll probably gain some weight and will definitely age, but I know I won't be trolling online dating while leading some poor sap on and abusing my partner.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


Posts: 15239 | Registered: Jun 2006
momentintime
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

His is an empty life. Enjoy your freedom.


BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl


Posts: 2899 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: New York
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're so much better off without his pathetic self holding you back If you catch yourself grinning like a crazy one today or tomorrow it is because you & the furbabies are finally living the life y'all deserved all along


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3243 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're so much better off without his pathetic self holding you back

Oh I realized that long ago!

There's also that slight reassurance that his behavior and character are really not about me, he just switches out partners...


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


Posts: 15239 | Registered: Jun 2006
hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh and he got fired from his job. He got fired from his last job for sexual harassment (lied to me about it). I don't know why he lost this job this time around but I can guess. Let's just say it's the type of job you have to actively lose; meaning you don't get fired for personality conflicts or even being kind of blase at it. You have to do something egregiously wrong.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


Posts: 15239 | Registered: Jun 2006
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's also that slight reassurance that his behavior and character are really not about me, he just switches out partners...

Amen. this is a really important realization.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


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