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DoneWithLove
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Content  Posted: 5:39 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H took us out to lunch today and when we were done eating, we hit the quarter machines. My 5 year old son got one of those little, purple, metal rings and gave it to me, which brought back an old memory.
A few months ago, pre A, my sons classmate had a birthday party. He brought back 2 rings, a batman ring for himself and a princess ring for me. He came running into the house screaming and then pulled out a princess ring and proposed to me. I went on to tell him that I cant because im his mom and im already married to dad.
Later on after my Hs A, I had brought it up in councilling. I couldn't believe that my 5 year old son could be so much more thoughtful and compassionate than a grown man... He gets that from me! My H was unable to think about getting me anything, surprise or not, even something as cheap as a 25 ring. Today, hes a different man but wtf? My 5 year old can look at a princess ring on top of a cup cake and think of me but a grown man that has known me since I was 18 has "no idea" what I like. That shouldve been a red flag... But he has been great since we started R, so I give him credit there.

[This message edited by DoneWithLove at 5:43 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


BW: Me (24)
FWH: Him (24) Jlaz1988ws
Together 11/12/06
2 sons, ages 5 and 1
Married 9/29/12
EA turned PA with OW/ coworker for 2- 4 weeks
D day 4/20/13
TT 4/20/13 - 7/30/13
"R" 5/3/13

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The mitten state
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your son sounds like a sweetheart! Totally thoughtful. I'm glad to hear your H is working on himself in R.

Posts: 33738 | Registered: Mar 2011
Lucky
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love little kid stories, they are just so sweet! Good job on your H too


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


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DoneWithLove
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Member # 39380
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, yes he is. Yeah, hes been doing alot to help me these days. Hes become the man that I always knew was under his tough guy exterior.


BW: Me (24)
FWH: Him (24) Jlaz1988ws
Together 11/12/06
2 sons, ages 5 and 1
Married 9/29/12
EA turned PA with OW/ coworker for 2- 4 weeks
D day 4/20/13
TT 4/20/13 - 7/30/13
"R" 5/3/13

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The mitten state
Topic Posts: 4

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