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User Topic: SI Makes it on Huffington Post
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5989 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
unfound
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14861 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aren't moon pies over a fire just S'mores?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3435 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aren't moon pies over a fire just S'mores?

GASP!

this is how many a banned members thought. redeem gahurts, redeem! you're not going along with the dogma of si!!!

uh oh, too late....


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14861 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2767 | Registered: Oct 2012
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Late to the party--and no, I don't want a moon pie--but reading most of those comments (those, not these) made me feel dirty. Ewwww.

I'm so sorry DS; what a mishigas


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20322 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 570 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all are too much!!

a really country way of saying FIRE!
Ahhhhhh... thank you for clarifying that! I'm a Carolina Girl currently living around more cows than people, but I still didn't get it. Not sure what that says about me!

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh NO! I didn;t mean to cross the line.

I'm sorry!
So sorry!

How many goats to I need to sacrifice to make amends?

(PSST - BBQ in Georgia after this dies down)


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3435 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
dadof4
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could only get about 5 pages in. The comments in my view reflect what society thinks infidelity. Lately I have been spending most of my time in the Betrayed Men's thread section because its pretty safe. It struck home when DS commented about the difference between betrayed men and betrayed women. The comments bear that out. Society makes us out to be doormats and pathetic. The Menz thread is the only place where we have a true brotherhood that isn't lying to our face. The whole thing adds insult to injury which is why I only got 5 pages in.


Me 52(BH)
Her 46 (FWW)
Kids-24,22,18,15
Married 25 years.
D-Day Sept 12 2009
LTA=4 years

Reconciling.


Posts: 308 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: New Hampshire
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had to stop reading the comments, too. Direct personal attacks that were mean spirited and baseless. They were making me sick.

I felt proud of those of us strong enough to fight back against some of the meanness and ignorance on behalf of SI.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3435 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read all the comments. Just internet trolls or people who have no clue what they are talking about. It reminds me of why I don't read comments on articles. But, in retrospect, those people have made my afternoon quite entertaining.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1296 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was brave of you to go there DS.
Holding yourself out to public scrutiny - knowing in advance I bet - that it would generate such a reaction.
Very brave.

Who among us, who among the o-so-informed hp readers and popular posters could do this?

Not many. That's why you guys are rare. Why don't people do this?
Because it's hard.

Maybe at some future date, this is so sad to imagine but I bet it's true....some anonymous someone will come crawling in here needing mojo, you know?
Just like me.


Posts: 6674 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had the thought while reading most of the comments that few, if any, would have the strength to reconcile if they were betrayed. After all, they think it's weak to fight for the M, to give that second chance. Well I, for one, will be eternally grateful my H was "weak".


They seem to think that if the WS is immediately kicked to the curb the BS will be just fine. Which just goes to prove how utterly clueless they are. If they *are* just fine afterward then they weren't that invested in the relationship, right?


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5893 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
Tred
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe at some future date, this is so sad to imagine but I bet it's true....some anonymous someone will come crawling in here needing mojo, you know?
Just like me.

Damn JJ...you fill my heart brother.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If they *are* just fine afterward then they weren't that invested in the relationship

^^^^^ Ding,Ding,Ding!


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 570 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I refuse to read the comments, it will just piss me off. Walk a mile in my shoes...

I am very thankful for this website. I have "met" amazing people, I have support and the occasional 2x4 when I need it, and I have survived hell on earth.

Thank you for everything you guys do!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4187 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SI can market its own printer, the INKSLAYER 9000


Honestly the gas on that thing is probably cheaper than the fucking ink cartridges.


"You have insulted my footwear."

Posts: 7495 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
aesir
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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