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User Topic: WH letters to OW
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Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with Lady Ogilvy. I hadn't looked at it that way, but it is true.

Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2012
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IMO, you are looking at those letters for a reason. There is something you need that you aren't getting. Something is unresolved. You don't need to rugs weep. You need to figure out what you need.
I know I go digging when I need a reality check. I can only shelve things and enjoy that things are going relatively well for awhile before I need something to keep things in perspective.

All of this rings true. I've started up IC again - I've been to quite a few, and even a psychiatrist - since the inception of this hell.

I want my life back.

BS: me - 37
WH: him - 37
DD: 8
DD: 11 mos

Married over 9 years, together for 18.

DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).

In limbo.

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