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User Topic: fWH is taking me on a vacation!
DoneWithLove
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My FWH is taking me on our first real vacation. No kids, no bull shit, no stressful family members. Just us in a nice big hotel room, its well deserved and over due. Im excited but the problem is that I keep thinking about the money going into this trip. We have the money but hes never done anything like this for me before. I want to have fun but I know all im gonna be thinking about is how much everything is gonna cost. I think I would be better off being blind folded. I want it, I deserve it, so why cant I just dive in? Ugh


BW: Me (24)
FWH: Him (24) Jlaz1988ws
Together 11/12/06
2 sons, ages 5 and 1
Married 9/29/12
EA turned PA with OW/ coworker for 2- 4 weeks
D day 4/20/13
TT 4/20/13 - 7/30/13
"R" 5/3/13

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The mitten state
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A relaxing vacation sounds wonderful. If you are concerned with the cost, why not discuss it with him. Maybe he was able to get a great deal or a discount.

Posts: 34667 | Registered: Mar 2011
Runninggirl
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please go on this trip if you can remotely afford it. It is not money wasted.
It can be a chance to really reconnect.
It is priceless. Let him take care of you on this trip.


Shock has worn off. Now the 'fun' begins.
After several years of solid R, (F)MOW
CHECKS IN in to say Hi~ H CHECKS OUT briefly and "forgets to tell me" because IT HADN'T gotten
physical this time. 4 months out again same MOW

Posts: 2852 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: The Valley
DoneWithLove
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by DoneWithLove at 9:18 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]


BW: Me (24)
FWH: Him (24) Jlaz1988ws
Together 11/12/06
2 sons, ages 5 and 1
Married 9/29/12
EA turned PA with OW/ coworker for 2- 4 weeks
D day 4/20/13
TT 4/20/13 - 7/30/13
"R" 5/3/13

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The mitten state
DoneWithLove
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Member # 39380
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to relax but he says its going to be a total of about $1,500 and if I know him that's probably just the minimum. We have never had that amount of expendable income before. Id rather have it and not need it, then need it and not have it. I guess its a complex... Im nervous.


BW: Me (24)
FWH: Him (24) Jlaz1988ws
Together 11/12/06
2 sons, ages 5 and 1
Married 9/29/12
EA turned PA with OW/ coworker for 2- 4 weeks
D day 4/20/13
TT 4/20/13 - 7/30/13
"R" 5/3/13

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The mitten state
Topic Posts: 5

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