Have a question to pose to the group. I'm the WS (the husband) and D-Day was one week ago. The anguish has been crushing.
I find myself wanting "to do something". Obviously other than being supportive and trying to be a "friend" to my poor wife, I've been doing housework. Perhaps even excessive housework. To my kids it looks blatantly like I'm trying to curry favor, and of course any amount cannot make up for cheating, but it is the only thing I can do right now to show my love for my family, including my wife.
Thoughts from the group? Should I cool it a little?