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User Topic: Escaping...stupid, fuck it
sunflowergirl30
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Default  Posted: 1:30 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

6 fire balls to numb the pain. 17 yr old Daughter found pic of another woman on wh cellphone. Woman showing off cleavage and blowing kiss.. Wh say he doesnt know wtf daughter is talking about ! Wow! Really wh! Liar liar

Daughter says sorry mom..well shit. Wtf: wh acting like hes the victim. FML...wow...he really is a bastard.

Sorry i drank: wanted to die. Needed to numb myself: pain is unexplainable
Not shocked though just disappointed. Wh is a fucking pos. i hate you, you lying bastard. Hes sleeping soundly! How sick: tomorrow im going to get you


Together 20yrs married 17yrs
2 kids, now 18 & 15
Bw: now 37
Wh: now 36
Mow: now 49
1st D-day EA w/mow our realtor 4-?-2007, 2nd D-day PA w/ same mow 5-29-2010

Posts: 1047 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Pacific Northwest
Getting to Happy
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Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((sunflowergirl30 and DD)))))

This shit never ends. UGH!!

Have a better day. Lots of water and some asprin will make this day look a lot better.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1138 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
thecosmogirl
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Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry!!! I hope you wake up and have a better day!
All this shit sucks!!!! And I think mine is better than most...if there is such a thing??? Doesn't make it any easier, believe that!!

I had a few triggers today and somehow made it through and did not have a meltdown. I can't even tell you how I did it. Or I would gladly share!!

(((Hugs)))to you and may you have strength to keep yourself strong!


Me: BS
Him: doesn't matter anymore...or does it...

Being very, very careful

D-day 14 June 2013


I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!


Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: trying to figure it out
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 3:06 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. And so sorry your daughter had to see that. ((((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 3:13 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry Sunflower for you and your DD. I hope tmoro is a better day..


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4704 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
confused615
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Default  Posted: 5:42 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get him.

Fuck him. FUCK HIM.

Im so fucking angry for you. I know how much you've been struggling. And he pulls this shit.

FTG.

He can play victim all he wants. He can pretend he has no idea what your DD is talking about.

YOU know the truth. You do not need a lying POS to tell you what you already know. The picture speaks for itself. His words mean nothing.


(((((((sunflowergirl)))))))

Don't even give him a second of your time today. Take care of YOU. Whether that means getting your ducks in a row,tossing his ass out,backing off and installing spyware, or whatever you need to do for YOU and your kids..do it.

FTG.

F.T.G.



BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7113 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
wanttogoforward
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How sad! Your daughter knows exactly what she saw and your H still tries to blow smoke up both your asses (figure of speech).... glad you aren't buying his bullshit!

Posts: 1173 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still lost
sunflowergirl30
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Narly hangover. Wh still claiming he has no idea what D is talking about. That he hasnt had anything like that on his cell. D is adamant about what she saw and wishes she would have confronted her dad about it at the time and forwarded photo to me. She feels in the middle. She is disgusted with her dad. She said," once a cheater always a cheater. Dad will never change".... i just cried and cried. I cant believe wh has put her in this position and i cant believe after everything he could AGAIN pull this shit.


Together 20yrs married 17yrs
2 kids, now 18 & 15
Bw: now 37
Wh: now 36
Mow: now 49
1st D-day EA w/mow our realtor 4-?-2007, 2nd D-day PA w/ same mow 5-29-2010

Posts: 1047 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Pacific Northwest
kiki1
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((sunflower)))
he has to go. you are worth so much more. you've given him such a valuable gift and he has thrown it back in your face. I'm sorry. I know its horrible to have to accept that. Now is the time to take care of you and dd. hugs sunflower

Posts: 507 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your poor girl. You need to get her out of the middle - quick. Just let her know your acknowledge what she saw but she is not responsible for either you or the POS.

Aren't they always the victim? ITA agree he needs to go.


ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

Posts: 980 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA
confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your DD wouldn't say this about her dad..and cause you pain...unless it was true. She has no reason to lie..he has every reason to lie.

How dare he call your/his DD a liar.


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7113 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
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