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User Topic: Missing the person walking my path with me
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm having stress at work. My director is retiring and there is a big shake up. She has been trying to alleviate everyone's minds, but after talking to her, I feel a bit worse.

I just want to be able to talk to someone who understands this situation. EX and I always knew everything about what was going on in each other's jobs. SO, which I think is now XSO again, has never really understood. He will listen to me, but doesn't get it. The fact that he's never worked in a similar environment, like EX does, didn't help.

I just wanted to pick up the phone and have someone understand and let me "talk through" the concerns I have.

I also have to get a D&C soon (I have an IUD and it moved after insertion, which is fine, but now that it's time to remove it, it has to be done under surgery). I have been putting it off, because I have no one to go with me and comfort me and pick me up.

I'm feeling sad today

[This message edited by tabitha95 at 1:37 PM, July 15th (Monday)]


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
better4me
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tabitha95)))

I understand. I feel this way sometimes too. Good thing it always passes, eventually.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 2825 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((tabitha))))


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22587 | Registered: Aug 2011
Arais
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, this is sad and times like these echo the loss of that person who knew you well enough to understand without a word.

(((((tabitha95)))))


Posts: 329 | Registered: Oct 2011
foreverempty
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Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right there with you with those feelings

(((((Tabitha)))))


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 12:35 AM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ended up calling ex. I don't want to have to rely on him emotionally, but I really needed to talk to someone. I regret calling him. Because of co-parenting, we communicate a lot, but it made me feel worse that he is still the only person I can talk to. I'm upset about work, I'm upset about my personal life. Only a few more weeks until my psychiatrist appt.

[This message edited by tabitha95 at 12:38 AM, July 16th (Tuesday)]


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
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