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User Topic: Stupid Stupid s-t-u-p-i-d!!!!!!!
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

His ex took his son and moved 3 hours away and promised to let him see him every other weekend....and he's lucky to see him once a month... and he doesn't fight it...he doesn't try to go to court so that he can see him more....(and that bothers me ....just does).

Shelly it is fantastic how far you have come! Since you have had Piper you just see right through the bull shit.


Posts: 3445 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shelly it is fantastic how far you have come! Since you have had Piper you just see right through the bull shit.

Thank you Crescita!

It just didn't make sense to me! They never went to court for custody.....he "says" he has joint custody...but it sounds like his ex calls all the shots and he sees his son whenever she feels like letting him! He "says" he and his ex get along and are friends....but...OF COURSE they are! He lets her do whatever she wants! Of course she is cool with him! If that were my son.....it would have been a fight! No one is going to take my child away from me that easily! No one.

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 12:02 PM, July 15th (Monday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shelly I think there are a lot of positives coming out of this thread for you.

I've also found it very useful as I ha e been questioning my own boundaries that people keep pushing or egging me on about, like no 'one night stands' which almost everyone is saying I'm mad for not exploring and I am starting to doubt myself. But reading this is making me feel slightly better for sticking to this rule of mine as it kinda makes me feel a little better about myself.

I've come too close to breaking it of late though, but I think that's me searching for ego stroking to make me feel I'm not that bad after all!!!!

I didn't realise quite how much of me I see in you until this thread but I have noticed a few of your dating based threads in here mirroring some of the complications I'm experiencing in my own little world!

Keep your posts up as I'm stealing lots of tips for me too!

P.S. sorry for confusing you with my quote. Didn't feel right leaving it with men as its content focus! Although it has to be said I've had a number of blokes trying to convince me other side of late...!

Was telling the guy in work about my Friday experience with the flirty girl and that I need to stay away or get stung again and he started telling me I should think about not being a vegetarian any more and think about being a carnivore...... Initially I was confused as I am not a veggie but he kept trying to tell me the same thing and suddenly I twigged he was on about me eating meat as in his! He's seriously gay and always come over to say hi when I've been in but never realised he was properly 'in to me!' Think I need to steer a little clear in future


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

foreverempty....

I'm glad I can help and I'm glad that I'm not the only person that is wired this way! I've never had a one night stand or a fling.... and its not because I didn't have lots of opportunities to break that rule when I was younger....but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. At the end of the day....I have to live with my decisions!

I don't regret the kiss....other than having the reminder of how nice it was and now knowing it will most likely be a while before it happens again! But..... Que' Sera Sera I suppose....


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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