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User Topic: And....Sad is on the move again
Sad in AZ
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Wink  Posted: 3:54 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't even know if it qualifies as a NB--I've had many in the past few years.

I'm moving back home--sort of. I've accepted a position in upstate NY--where I basically grew up. I spent every summer-and a lot of the winter skiing-here from age 5 to 18.

I start my new job on August 12th, so it's another quick move. I'll be managing a custom car dealership specializing in Corvettes; some very high-end classic cars (including Trans Ams, my favorite) plus late models-Corvettes, BMWs, etc.

It's exciting, scary, and so me

Oh, and there may be another part of the NB--it's much too early to say at this point, though...


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19152 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
cayc
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, that sounds awesome. Congratulations!


BS 45, WH 38
M 8 years, together 10
Real DDay 10/07/11
Too many OW to count.
D final on 6/21/12
You have to walk away from the past in slow motion as it explodes behind you, like in a John Woo movie.

Posts: 2782 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woohoo!! Welcome to the east coast! If you happen to be driving to the new abode, you'll be coming very near to my area. The gang and I would love to meet you.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 6989 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! I was just getting used to you being in TX.

Congratulations!


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There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I threw it out to the universe--I've been applying in NY, AZ, NM, CA-whatever struck my fancy. The only interest I received was from NY. I guess it was meant to be.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19152 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
phmh
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations. Opportunity for new birds for the life list!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3097 | Registered: Dec 2011
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, you move around almost as much as I do... Congratulations!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16611 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
cmego
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cool!!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 40, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, separated 3 years, together 17
Alis volat propriis "She flies with her own wings"
separated 1/2011

Posts: 3584 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!!!!


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations...

Where do you find these places to apply to?

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4002 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! How exciting! It always sounded like your Texas job was very unfulfilling. Good for you for trying something new. Takes guts!

[This message edited by kernel at 4:38 PM, July 13th (Saturday)]


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Posts: 4656 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cool!!! You were looking at NY even when you applied for the TX job, weren't you?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!

And you already know the language so it'll be easy to blend in.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3065 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck with your move!


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2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2490 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
hill
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, Sad!! Awesome job!! I'm very jealous... although I'll admit I'm partial to German cars. Keep me updated on the Bimmers

...and I LOVE Saratoga, if that's close. Maybe an upstate GTG is in order...


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!




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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds amazing, congratulations!

Posts: 2962 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
persevere
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How exciting! Especially the opportunity to see people you grew up with!

After my move just to a smaller home a year ago, I don't think I could survive that again...lol!

But you are amazing SAZ - I'm so happy for you!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, Ama. I was actually approached by one of those companies back in April; that started my me on the hunt again. Nothing came of it, but it gave me the impetus.

Kajem--I set up alerts on Indeed.com and SimplyHired.com; that seemed to cover all the bases.

And hill,I'm up for a g2g anytime! I'll be very close to Saratoga.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19152 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!

Can't hardly image two much different climates though.

Bet your thermostat settings change!

Good luck!


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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