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User Topic: OW told MY Personal info on Facebook
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have four people in your M. OW, MIL and WH.

The sooner you get away, the better. Meanwhile, begin acting as though you are D. Consult a lawyer (solicitor?) about your rights. Document everything, start gathering your financial info, proof of bills paid and money spent.

It will never be a good time to tell your kids, so please don't sacrifice yourself in an effort to wait. It will set back your healing enormously. As long as you are loving and supportive, providing someone that they can talk to (such as an IC or family counselor) that will be what will mitigate their ability to handle it more than timing. Though I agree that doing it before school is best...my niece found out about her mom's A in August (my SIL abandoned the family) and she had a really tough time concentrating in school.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11182 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
iammine
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, July 16th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your thoughts...

I may have an opportunity to rent a small house from my manager. A fresh start would be nice. It would be the same distance to school, basically the same neighborhood.

Should I stay put? Or try somewhere new? Or should I not make the twins move too? If this house wasn't coming up I would not be looking.


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