It is in a briefcase and the briefcase is between my desk and the wall so I never see it. But I know it's there if I ever want it.

Since we are not yet D, I think it's good to keep that evidence. Someday I may give him copies of it all after the D just so he will know that I really did know for a fact the things I told him I knew -- if you can follow that.

I doubt that I'll ever get rid of it. It's a reminder to me that I never ever want to get romantically involved with anyone again.

Because my STBX isn't "just" a cheater, because he is a sexual pervert who includes in his perversion young girls, my evidence has been shared with many others and will probably be kept by me under lock & key until my children are grown & out of the house.

This, but boys. I kept a big box of legal papers until my youngest turned 18 and I was concurrently going through recovery post stbx Dday. I found it cathartic to throw away 90% of it, only keeping enough info to protect any future grandbabies from x.

I just havent had time to purge stbx junk, but that will be easy. As soon as I remember where I put it.