4 - 6 months of TT'ing
RDay 7/2013 :)
I've said it before, I warned him she would do anything, say anything, to get him. I seen her for what she is, a lying manipulative piece of trash from day one. So glad he sees it now too. Especially glad he sees just how lucky he is and how good he has it with me and realizes how much he loves me!
Glad your H finally sees this too!
He wasn't worth the effort and she had already found someone else and was moving on.
No, they don't pour honey....they pour out bullshit!
my WH too thought that OW was "nice".
Same here...and "she's a good person." GOOD people don't try to break up marriages!
It's amazing what fog does. Ugh!
To this day, I think he is too embarrassed to admit that she is just a stupid whore. He will say, "I knew she was desperate but I didn't know just how desperate she was".
I can see an ass kisser from a mile away. Why can't they?
[This message edited by TheClimb at 9:31 AM, July 10th (Wednesday)]
LOL I just said something similar to my WH the other day.
Something along the line of, "the 2 bullshitters bullshitted each other." I then started laughing in hysterics. WH did not think it was so funny
It took him months before he would finally admit to himself that she was as much of his friend as a wolf is to a lamb. And only because he was spending OUR money buying her time.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
Well now, an AP couldn't feed their ego if they were jerks, could they? MrH said that the time he knew xOw2 before the A, she was a downright bitch to him. It wasn't until a conference in HI that suddenly she became nice and complimentary.
During the A though, she began to revert back to her old ways, by then he was invested and held on to the A, maybe because he couldn't admit to himself how much he screwed up...again.
She and her 2 oldest daughters climbed out on the roof and jumped down to safety, leaving her 10 yr old son and her 18 month old daughter, who had been sleeping in her crib in the same room as the ow, in the house.
I always think nothing else could shock me with some of the doozies I've read here, but this...I want to throw up. I honesty can't even imagine. I wouldn't be able to leave the house with my kids still inside.
[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 3:17 PM, July 10th (Wednesday)]
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