Both had DDays and TT
Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.
Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.
I happen to own two of the Asus 23" displays and have had them for six months. Great picture, good color quality, and very responsive. Reasonable price too. If you are looking for something slightly bigger, there are a few other Asus models that are similar.
Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.