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User Topic: Need mommy strength that I just don't have
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From what I know, from Wednesday, all is ok. I'm not expecting it to all be ok and painless, but she seems to be serious and following our plan. I don't want to kid myself, but I don't want to NOT have faith in her, either, so we are keeping in close contact, I am being encouraging, asking questions, and being supportive of GOOD news.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ssm))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SSM)))


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you & your DD Ssm - (((hugs)))


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you more strength today, ssm. How are you doing?


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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chopper
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((SSM)))))
Sending you strength and positive thoughts! I hope you had a good weekend


Me BS(49)
WH passed away on 3/21/2013(52)
2 Kids S(24) D(21)
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."–George MacDonald
"Not being able to govern events, I govern myself." –Michel de Montaigne


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stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. You guys are so sweet. I love this place.

I had a great weekend. I had the Bunt for the first time since the hospital. His dad took a lot of vaca time this month, so I'm not seeing him much. I am def keeping in touch with DD several times a day, and according to her (if she's being truthful), she has not done anything since Tuesday night. She says she feels a little bad (physically), but not as bad as she feared, and no urges. She has been in meetings at least twice a day, as well - and working. I am hopeful but not convinced. Meanwhile, just keeping close encouragement going. She and her roommate were over last night doing laundry til late, and they seem good.

I had a good, quality time weekend with Bunt. Needed it, and it was great. I am not sleeping much right now, and I don't know why, but I'm desperate to fix that. Today, I might take the dog for a good long walk, then take a nice bath - try to relax enough to sleep well.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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Want2help
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SSM)))

Being a mommy (or parent, period) is so hard. You're doing an amazing job.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
Surprise OC born 3/08 (NC)
7 years into successful R.
"That which can be destroyed by truth should be." -P. C. Hodgell

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