Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
Find a Local Couselor
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: DevastatedWH (43169)

New Beginnings Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: NB part 2 :)
IrishLass518
♀ Member
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Soooooo, on July 3rd I finally blocked xWH and OWifetress on FB. They weren't my Friends but Friends with our kids and other family members and I could see the things that they posted in comments. Really, nothing useful and I realize that anything they were saying or alluding too about me or the kids ultimately reflects bad on them and only them. Today I got the notice in the mail that my Bankruptcy was discharged on July 3rd.
Apparently, I knew it was time to move forward emotionally and financially and it happened on the same day.
Now, I am in control of my future and finances and no one can take that away from me unless I allow it.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 11
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1468 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Chrysalis123
♀ Member
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2363 | Registered: Jan 2010
Kajem
♀ Member
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4002 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
cass
♀ Member
Member # 24261
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4953 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
nutmegkitty
♀ Member
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like your NB part 2!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2490 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22581 | Registered: Aug 2011
fraeuken
♀ Member
Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, all blocked here too. Feels good. Keep moving forward.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1159 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
IrishLass518
♀ Member
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys and gals and it does feel good. I am sooooo excited about my future for ME and my IrishLad
I can now rebuild MY credit and find just the right car, land and home for me and my boy. I get to decide what furniture and decorations. I get to decide when and where we travel. I get to be ME and that is a huge gift to myself. I told another SI er this morning, "Get YOU back first and then decide if you want HIM/HER back." I am finally here, I am back and I like ME


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 11
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1468 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
lostmommy
♀ Member
Member # 33440
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
Topic Posts: 9

Return to Forum: New Beginnings Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.