scream its all good. To me there were 2 things going on.
1. I was trying to get you to be specific as that is what helped and continues to help me. What you finally defined as what your doing is something I was posting to someone else yesterday which was funny as hell to me. So sharing is great, but there is power in giving a specific as that adds to all our tool boxes as we try to fix what we blew up. When others put up generalizations or blanket statements we will question it.
2. The one place a waywards voice shouldn't be drowned out or ignored is the Wayward forum and it happens. Or you have wayward's who are looking for validation from BS's and they jump on an unhealthy band wagon just to avoid conflict.
You seemed earnest in your post and I didn't want that to get lost in the minutia. Many times out of the passionate exchange of views is when some really great learning can take place. It can get uncomfortable for sure, but I think most of us got to wayward doing what was comfortable so to me I have to flip it and be willing to get uncomfortable to ensure I learn a different way.
Hope to see more of you on the board scream!