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User Topic: Just pathetic
Pass
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Funny  Posted: 12:43 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In contrast to my earliest posts on here, I'm now using the word "Pathetic" to describe The Princess instead of myself. I am now starting to see how she really isn't all that, and really never has been.

Shortly after I moved out, 10 left a couple crayons in his pockets, which ruined an entire load of laundry, so she had to go out and buy a pile of new clothes. These new clothes are, of course, much more revealing than her old ones.

A couple things:

- 13 was telling me that she has a CD in the car that has the song that says something about a long coat and a short skirt being sexy. Every time this song comes on, she says, "This song is about me". TO HER FRIGGING SON. He doesn't want to hear that shit, but she can't stop herself from pointing out her sexuality to anyone who will listen.

- She came to pick up the boys the other day, and was wearing some ridiculously short shorts. They showed off lots of leg, and were very close to showing off some arse. 10 asked her if those were new shorts, so she did a little spin, let us all look at the back of her legs, and said, "These? Oh no. I've had them forever." She hasn't of course.

She really is pathetic, and seems to be grasping at straws. The best part was how I sat there and said nothing, instead of telling her how fabulous she looked - as I had through our entire marriage.

She is fishing for compliments, but is in the wrong pond with me! As you've all told me about a million things in the past, she fired me from that job.

Yay for me!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2142 | Registered: Jan 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay you!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25842 | Registered: Aug 2011
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah for you!!! She doesn't deserve to be complimented for acting like a slut, especially in front of her kids. Keep up the good work, you are doing better with every day that passes even if you don't always feel that way. My WH#2 starting doing weird stuff like that after he started his A. He would not shave for a day or two, so he had the gruffy look. I complained and he said it was the new look. Well I guess OW told him it was sexy or something. It may be sexay on a 20-30yr old, but on a 50yr old he looks like a homeless whino.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow ... that is so sad and pathetic. Good for you for not feeding her shallow ego. It also was appropriate to not compliment that outfit in front of your sons. You don't want your sons thinking they way their mother is dressing is appropriate and normal. Yay for you!!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2284 | Registered: Oct 2012
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, a Cake song for the cake-eater!

Seriously. At 44? I'll take the boobs out for a spin on a night out but its so unnecessary during the day.. and to mince about like that in front of her sons?

Pathetic is right. And no class.

She is seeking external validation. Let her get her ego kibbles elsewhere.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5619 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Pass
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the support, y'all. I especially loved all the comments along this line:

Yeah for you!!! She doesn't deserve to be complimented for acting like a slut

And StrongButBroken, she is very good at getting her ego kibbles everywhere she can. That's why I'm here. I expect I'm not the only one she's throwing her legs at! Who am I kidding? I KNOW I'm not the only one!

Boobs and legs seem to be the only things she has going for her these days. I don't expect she'll have any problem finding idiots who are happy to get at them - until they discover what she's like.

Of course, it took me 17.5 years, but I'm a slow learner.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass, you are doing well and I am glad you "passed" on giving any type of compliment to her.

It can be hard at times to try and explain those comments to your kids, but you did great!

Keep up the good work!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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