[This message edited by watchtheskyy at 9:28 AM, July 6th (Saturday)]
The sea is so wide, and my boat is so small.
I am always surprised what post resonates with people. Clearly people can relate to this one!
Sal: you are right. I do think my spouse is overall a good person and this is what people see PLUS the new addition of him clearly adoring me. And let's face it. They are projecting their own story on what they see with us. I did notice about this friend (who we see every 3-5 years) is that she and her H rarely engaged one another.
Stillhurting...you said it! It is not about getting lucky its "hard work". For sure. Even moreso now, right!
[This message edited by LA44 at 9:23 PM, July 6th (Saturday)]
"yes, I'm married to Goofy!"
I had to laugh out loud...That is hilarious Kat!!
What DO you say to folks that just gush over the WH?
Mr. Happy even before his stupid A was always referred to as "Such a Nice Guy", *sigh*
A woman saw us a party, that we have known since we were dating actually cried because we were still together after all these years... UGH!!
I could not really say:
"Well he had a 5.5 year PA with a co-worker. I am still licking my wounds 2 years later...but yes we are still together." Not really. But I must say, it was bubbling right behind my lips.
I am trying to find my way back to the "Nice Guy" I knew. Hopefully this will happen before my 'give a shit' breaks!
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
heck, I've even had one of her friends tell me what a lucky guy I am, even though she knew about the affair while it was going on and even encouraged it.