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User Topic: So... I got roses...
wildbananas
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Content  Posted: 5:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My busy season at work is from July to mid-October. This year is going to be especially bad because I'm the only IT person and I'm on call 24/7. It's been pretty hairy so far... I've been working long hours around the clock.

But... a guy I've known for about ten years sent me a dozen roses, which I received on the same day we started production at work. They're even more awesome because he knows I like opals and the name of the color has "opal" in it and they're all blue, green, yellow and purple.

He knows I'm super busy for the next 100ish days but has officially asked me out for when production is over. He said he's patient and I'm worth the wait.

I know a lot can happen between now and then and it very well may not happen but yeah... it still made me smile.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15270 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
cayc
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a lovely gesture! And the understanding is nice too!


BS 45, WH 38
M 8 years, together 10
Real DDay 10/07/11
Too many OW to count.
D final on 6/21/12
You have to walk away from the past in slow motion as it explodes behind you, like in a John Woo movie.

Posts: 2780 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy the feeling


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is so lovely!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 14900 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
persevere
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwwww wb, that's really cool.


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sweet.




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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooooh, that's fun.

That's such a specific gesture... I think that if you want something to happen, the door seems pretty open.

"Squee" either way!


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14524 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Sad in AZ
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Wink  Posted: 6:20 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice!


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19133 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Classy way to ask! Niiiiice.


Me - 41
My Rockstar (Hubs #2) - 46, faithful, & an absolute doll!
DD(20) and DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs and 2 Cats)

The Cheater:
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW. Undiagnosed SA?)
Married 18yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 5490 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: United States
want_to_forgive
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this! What a sweet gesturre. :)


M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska
willowiris
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic! You are definitely someone who deserves roses and you ARE worth the wait~!


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."


Posts: 12326 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: Margaritaville
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WB,
That is so thoughtful and wonderful of him. Very glad he recognizes the fact that you are certainly worth he wait.

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome


BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a thoughtful and lovely gesture.

I like this one.


“If things start happening, don't worry, don't stew, just go right along and you'll start happening too.” -Dr Seuss

Posts: 4477 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Didn't think there were any still out there with that kind of class!

You soooo deserve to be treated in this manner. Enjoy it!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1237 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Speechless101
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How thoughtful!


Me (BS): 29
Him: 31
Together: 8 yrs
Married: 3 1/2 years 2008
Love you, not in love-May 2010
No PA- EA with ex from high school calls, texts, emails & met for dinner once (inappropriate behavior for married man)
Divorced as of Feb. 2012

Posts: 289 | Registered: Jun 2010
broken2
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this! There are still good ones in this world.

Posts: 2019 | Registered: Nov 2007
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

awww that is nice. Hope the wait isn't too long


"You can never have too much happy!"

Posts: 1123 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
BrokenPieces
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Twinnie, you are so amazing, I am glad someone has stepped up to the plate to show you that. xoxoxoxo


BS-40
Red Headed Imps 10 & 8
DDay 1/05
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09

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