Topic: So... I got roses...
Member # 10552
| Posted: 5:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
My busy season at work is from July to mid-October. This year is going to be especially bad because I'm the only IT person and I'm on call 24/7. It's been pretty hairy so far... I've been working long hours around the clock.
But... a guy I've known for about ten years sent me a dozen roses, which I received on the same day we started production at work. They're even more awesome because he knows I like opals and the name of the color has "opal" in it and they're all blue, green, yellow and purple.
He knows I'm super busy for the next 100ish days but has officially asked me out for when production is over. He said he's patient and I'm worth the wait.
I know a lot can happen between now and then and it very well may not happen but yeah... it still made me smile.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15279 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
Member # 21964
| Posted: 5:34 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
What a lovely gesture! And the understanding is nice too!
BS 45, WH 38
M 8 years, together 10
Real DDay 10/07/11
Too many OW to count.
D final on 6/21/12
You have to walk away from the past in slow motion as it explodes behind you, like in a John Woo movie.
Posts: 2791 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Member # 34426
| Posted: 5:36 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Enjoy the feeling
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Posts: 605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
Member # 20849
| Posted: 5:48 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
That is so lovely!
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 14914 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 31468
| Posted: 5:53 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Awwwww wb, that's really cool.
Together 9 yrs
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 31528
| Posted: 6:07 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Posts: 30687 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 31349
| Posted: 6:15 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Oooooh, that's fun.
That's such a specific gesture... I think that if you want something to happen, the door seems pretty open.
"Squee" either way!
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot
Posts: 14698 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
|Sad in AZ|
Member # 24239
| Posted: 6:20 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.
Posts: 19175 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Member # 26928
| Posted: 6:21 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Classy way to ask! Niiiiice.
Me - 41
My Rockstar (Hubs #2) - 46, faithful, & an absolute doll!
DD(20) and DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs and 2 Cats)
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW. Undiagnosed SA?)
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Posts: 5522 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: United States
Member # 20470
| Posted: 6:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Love this! What a sweet gesturre. :)
M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.
Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska
Member # 5372
| Posted: 6:30 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Fantastic! You are definitely someone who deserves roses and you ARE worth the wait~!
Filed for divorce 9/2006
We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."
Posts: 12326 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: Margaritaville
Member # 33226
| Posted: 6:37 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox
Posts: 22649 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 12475
| Posted: 8:17 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
That is so thoughtful and wonderful of him. Very glad he recognizes the fact that you are certainly worth he wait.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
Member # 26023
| Posted: 10:51 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
BH, now divorced
Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
Member # 35229
| Posted: 5:53 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
What a thoughtful and lovely gesture.
I like this one.
Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
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Posts: 4554 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 28376
| Posted: 11:21 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Didn't think there were any still out there with that kind of class!
You soooo deserve to be treated in this manner. Enjoy it!
Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending
Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 28812
| Posted: 11:29 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Me (BS): 29
Together: 8 yrs
Married: 3 1/2 years 2008
Love you, not in love-May 2010
No PA- EA with ex from high school calls, texts, emails & met for dinner once (inappropriate behavior for married man)
Divorced as of Feb. 2012
Posts: 289 | Registered: Jun 2010
Member # 16935
| Posted: 12:19 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Love this! There are still good ones in this world.
Posts: 2019 | Registered: Nov 2007
Member # 36445
| Posted: 4:45 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
awww that is nice. Hope the wait isn't too long
"You can never have too much happy!"
Posts: 1151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 7685
| Posted: 7:09 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
Twinnie, you are so amazing, I am glad someone has stepped up to the plate to show you that. xoxoxoxo
Red Headed Imps 10 & 8
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09
Posts: 2287 | Registered: Jul 2005 | From: Greater Seattle Area
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